8 Tips for Looking and Feeling More Attractive

1.The reason why they shouldn't be called models&

Struggling to be like your favorite underwear model or hot hunky celebrity? Well let's give it a break shall we? These people are one in a million, and chances are they've used a lot of their money to try and improve their appearances. In other words, most of these people are nothing but make-up and plastic. Uck. What happened to the days of au natural beauty!? Learn to appreciate yourself for what your creator gave you! I'm sure you'd find that without all the plastic and cosmetics, these models and celebrities look just like you!

2."You still think I'm gorgeous right?"

If you're really feeling down about your appearance, then let your partner know about it! Get some positive feedback from some friends! Studies have shown that when you're graced with compliments and nice things it makes you feel so much more attractive, and that feeling will shine through into everything that you do! If someone's trying to stomp out your good vibe, then just walk away. Not only are these people bad for your self-esteem (which also reflects in everything you do) but they make it really hard to meet new people, and put your best foot forward.

3.Back Away from the Mirror!

Do you realize that most people are more critical on themselves about how they appear than others are? Think about it, how many times have you put yourself down only to have a friend answer "Really? I've never thought so&I think you look great!" Shy people often make themselves feel more insecure and inadequate, when they seem to be the only one that thinks that! Go ahead, read that last sentence again and tell me how crazy it sounds. If you're reluctant to go to a party because of your shyness, then go with a few friends, being with people that you're comfortable around will make you comfortable around others. And for the record, new people are really attracted to that!

4.Grab yourself by the gonads!

&Well I don't mean that literally. What I do mean is that if you want something about your body to change, then just do it! Don't let others form what you will look like, talk like, wear, ect. These are your choices to make, and yours alone!

5.From the Inside&Out

Instead of talking about how much you hate your thunder thighs, muffin top, or anything else that you find undesirable about yourself, try thinking about what others find attractive about you. Besides, in the long run, beauty is still going to fade away. To this day I don't think I've ever seen a grandmother that I would consider sexy, but all of her attractive qualities are still present. Ultimately, what I'm trying to say (regardless as to how clich? it is) is that looks will fade, but your personality will endure forever. Even when you're dead, people tend to remember more what you were like rather than remembering what you looked like alive.

6.I'm a Legend in My Own Mind

It's all about how comfortable you are in your own skin. Picture this: You go to a party, bring a few friends and wear whatever you want&.say it's your favorite outfit&be it a classy little sundress or an odd-ball assortment of your favorite clothes. Sure, half the people there (mostly the people that you don't want to associate yourself with) are going to make fun of what you're wearing and shun you. That's okay, they don't know what they're missing. The others however, suddenly see you as very approachable! You've just walked in, doing your own thing, and you don't care what others think. Now that, is hot!

7.Aging = The Death of Shyness?

Everyone worries about aging gracefully, but a number of studies have shown that with an increase of age comes a decrease in shyness! Most older folks already know what many of us are still struggling to understand. Everyone has their little flaws, but they are something to be proud of, not to hide. It's what makes us unique after all! These older chaps have been around the block a few times, seen people of all sorts, and know that aging is inevitable. So, if it's going to happen anyway, why not age with grace? I for one can't wait to be sporting a full head of silver hair.

8.Beauty isn't all it's cracked up to be...

If you talk to someone that you consider 'beautiful' then nine times out of ten I'm sure that you'll find that they are no happier than you are. Sure, their looks may get them some special treatment every now and again, but aside from that, there are no other perks. As a matter of fact, you might even find that they can't seem to have a meaningful relationship because of their looks. People are often shallow, and will go for looks over personality. But even those who are attractive want to be in healthy, meaningful relationships. So remember, beauty is no cure all in life! Rely on your personality and charm to win someone over. Not the looks that will fade with the years.

Stephenie Terry is a resident of Southern California and the author of the How to Become More Attractive to Women blog which can be found at http://howtobemoreattractivetowomen.wordpress.com

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